Christmas 2018

'Twas the night after Christmas and all through the house,
LOL dolls littered the floor, like crumbs for a mouse.
The stockings were empty, and just sort of hung there
The kids had rifled through them, they had presents to tear
Calvin was napping, thank God for that
Dad left for the store, wearing his Santa hat
Mom was so tired of cooking and cleaning
She could hardly remember the Christmastime meaning
The dog was on his 314th nap
And so she grabbed her computer and put it on her lap
It was finally time to blog, now that the big guy left town
To make the memories last, she'd write them all down.

Every Christmas, I think I'll remember what gifts I got my kids, what special moments we shared over the holiday break, and how we did it all, but I never do. So this year I'm going to share my top memories, if nothing else for my children to look back on someday and know how much this time meant to me. First a few random photos from my phone.

Faith reading a Christmas book with her piano teacher, Granny B

Gabby at her Gingerbread house party with Grandma Jan

Calvin, rocking the Rudolph filter

(In somewhat of a chronological order)
10) The Lindquist Christmas at Rob's Grandma's. We opened our gifts one by one and I cannot recommend this enough. It is so fun to see the joy on each kid's face as they unwrap their gift and take time to say thank you. Then we went to watch our niece act in a Christmas play. She nailed her lines, and the pure delight of the children's and adult choirs were exactly what makes it feel like Christmas.

Kylee is the second from left. Photo by Proud Uncle Rob

9)The next day we celebrated with the Davis side. The funniest part was trying to take a grandkid picture, with ages ranging between 22-1. This year my future nephew was in charge of holding Cal, but was holding him as though he was 3 months old and couldn't sit up. He looked confused as he attempted an ab hold for the next two minutes. Meanwhile my niece wouldn't look at the camera and one of the silly faces just looked sad. I like to think we were laughing with them and not at them during this. And at least the cops didn't show up after someone "practiced dialed" 9-1-1 this year.

8) The McNamara family celebrated Christmas Italian style with lasagna, spaghetti, and garlic bread. And cheesecake because that deliciousness crosses borders. The kids were running around trying to create a way to catch Santa using the video baby monitor and the iPad. It was quite ingenious and I have to thank my bro-in-law for helping point out some major flaws in the system thinking like the big kid he is.

7) The Weis Christmas. It's so good to see my cousins who were like brothers and sisters to me growing up. I have spent pretty much every Christmas Day with them for as long as I can remember. While some traditions have changed, it is so neat to see our family continue to grow and Grandpa Bud just loves it!

6) Our immediate family Christmas was probably the last with Faith believing in Santa. While it's bittersweet (I don't want the girl going to middle school as a Santa evangelist) I love how much she wants to believe. Her big Christmas gift from mom and dad was a Raddish subscription. Each month she'll receive kid-friendly recipes and her own kitchen tools. We have to supply the groceries, but I will say we had a great time baking hot cocoa cupcakes and focaccia bread on Christmas morning together. Also, my skills in the kitchen are the equivalent of a third grader, so it's a good match.

5) Gabby Grace was so grateful on Christmas morning for her "blue fluffy flower" and "green bunny" from Santa. That kid never makes it easy with her unique requests. Her big gift from mom and dad was an Instapix camera, basically a polaroid camera with "films" in it. She has always had an eye for photography, and the camera was a hit!

4) Cal's didn't really get a big gift but got a Tickle me "Momo"and added to his Lego collection. He also got a baby with a magnetic binky. We call the baby "Steve." He really just likes throwing everyone else's presents around the house. I was impressed with his unwrapping skills for 20 months old.

3) Rob and I promised we wouldn't get each other anything since this year's big gift was Apple watches to each other, but we both went and got the other something. When his gift was labeled "fragile"I thought we bought the same thing, but he got us new wine glasses and I got us a teapot like the one we drank from in San Francisco. Figured with three kiddos, it wouldn't hurt to try to recreate that moment of Zen.

2) One of my favorite moments from every holiday is during the Christmas service when everyone sings Silent Night. It reminds me of when I was a kid, and so excited for Santa to come, and to see my cousins, and open stockings with my sisters, and bake Christmas cookies. While I miss having close to zero responsibilities, it's fun (and turns out quite a bit of work) to create that magic for my kids. Sure it stresses me out a bit and I get overwhelmed with all there is to do, but then it's here and I get to sing this song with my family at church.

1) This year we were all healthy for the holidays. Just a few days later and both Faith and Gabby both caught a virus and it's been terrible. While I hate to see them struggle, it is such a stark reminder how much we take our health and simply feeling good for granted. I plan to be more grateful to feel good in 2019.


Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Best. Day. Ever. The middle child's 5th birthday.

Blink.

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For Gabby's Birthday this year, I wanted it to be special. Increments of five are a big deal in our society, and there's nothing quite like reaching a whole hand. All that to say I took the day off of work, sent Faith to school and dropped Calvin off at daycare so it was just the two of us.

Every morning, we listen to Sirius XM's "Kids Place Live" channel. In case you ever need to know what songs are in the children's top 10, Rob and I are your lifelines. Anyway, each weekday they make a big deal about birthdays and assign kids "birthday missions" in order to turn another year older. When I said I was going to call in and request a song for Gabby, she immediately turned shy and said she didn't want to talk on the phone. This one. So different than her sister who has already determined her stage name will be Crystal Rose. (Rolls eyes to the heavens.) I made the call anyway but got voicemail. We listened to it at home for awhile. And then it happened. The host Absolutely Mindy wished Gabrielle a high fiver birthday and played the song Somebunny Loves Me! It was one of those moments I'll always remember.

Next up we headed to her preschool for snack time. This will be her last birthday she can skip school with me. But we still wanted to bring treats for her friends. It was neat to see her in her element during "group time" and when the class sang to her, those tears came back again.

Five years feels like five minutes with this one. Best sleeper. First to potty train. And a mama's girl through and through. She still comes up to me and says "Hug-eeee" and waits with her arms out. I can make everything better and I want that job as long as she'll have me.

Next we moved onto the library where we played Connect 4, put on a puppet show, pretended we were going to Disneyworld for the day in the dramatic play center, and checked out 5 books because of course we did.

This is going to sound like bragging because it is. Gabby can read. Not just sight words. All the words. She does need help on the longer ones, but I am just in awe of how good she is at it. Of course we share the achievement with her amazing preschool that she's gone to for 3 years. She even had the nerve to graduate last month.

After the library, we went to Chic-fil-A, her favorite fast food place, which I don't hate because of the waffle fries. I read her all her birthday wishes from Facebook, and she played in the play area. When we got home, she and I both took short naps, and then it was off to the splash pad. Thankfully it was a pretty hot day, but with school in session, it wasn't crowded. Secret to the splash pad: always bring buckets. This girl has loved the water since day 1. Never afraid to put her face in or be dunked by her dad, she could swim forever. H20 brings her so much joy it brings me joy by association.

At this point in the day, it was time to pick up Faith from school and go home. Out of nowhere, My brand new 5 year old started crying on the way there. Oh no, I thought, and asked her what was wrong. Her response: she didn't want the "Just mom and me" day to end. Bless. Her. Heart. I told ya she was her mom's favorite -- I mean, a mama's girl. ;)

Just like her infancy, toddlerhood and preschool years, the day flew by. I remember so many moments over the past five years, but the older she gets the hazier the details become. I know I'm late posting this (despite the backdate for record purposes) however, it was so important to me to get this down on paper/the internet. I want Gabby, and all my kids to know how much I'm enjoying the ride and being their mom. There are certainly trying times, but I laugh daily, smile constantly, and literally cannot get enough of them most days.

How would I describe my middle child? Smart! FUNNY! (Best. Laugh. Ever.) Musical - girl can memorize lyrics like a boss. Tempermental. Nite owl. Mature when she wants to be. Homebody. Imaginative. Kind. Independent. Beautiful (but don't call her cute). Bummed she's not the baby. Bashful, yet LOUD. Strong. Articulate (since age 2 - she comes by the name honestly!) Fun. Friendly. Rule follower. Fast. Gifted. Lovable and LOVED. 23 adjectives for my girl born on the 23rd!

Happy Birthday, Gabby Grace!

And now for some pics from your Emoji birthday pool party!

Super Cal turns O-N-E

Calvin,
Happy 1st Birthday! My gift to you is this 8-minute video of the past 12 months .

While it captures many milestones and moments from your first year, it doesn't and cannot convey just how much I love this job as your mom.

From the time you wake up in the morning and reach your chubby lil arms out for me to lift you out of the crib to the time I rock you to dreamland and roll you back into your bed at night, I try not to forget how lucky I am to be in this line of work --

* to hear you giggle as I chase you from one room to the next
* to watch you destroy folded laundry (piles of papers, boxes of tissues, shall I go on?)
*to smell your perfectly round, red head
* to feed your face full of yogurt (macaroni, meat, milk - though you spill most of it on the floor)
and last but not least (and my personal favorite)
*to snuggle you close and feel just how right you fit in my arms whenever I darn well please!

Thanks for hiring me for the job. Can we talk contract extension sometime?

xoxo,
mom

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QeUfhVUliGs&feature=youtu.be

p.s. Here are some pictures of the photoshoot from your first birthday. You were so smiley and these are the best family pictures we've ever taken. I should quit while we're ahead, but what's the fun in that?

The photo of our family sitting on the floor is the precise few seconds right before your dad completely threw his back out. The photographer and I were sympathetic for approximately 30 seconds and then it was "on with the show." Poor dad, he had to crawl over to a chair and couldn't move for the rest of the session. (Don't worry, he's OK now!) I knew it would mean I was on solo overnight binky replacement/rocking duty and was prepared for plentiful wakeups that night. Wouldn't you know it, that was the first official time you slept through the night. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I will never be able to repay you in baby cheek smooches enough, but that won't stop me from trying...